embarced

people make mistakes ,sometimes very serious ones,as often as not,the mistakes are not deliberate or personal,sometimes,people just dont know what they are doing,thismeans that if in the past,people have behaved badly towards you,it wasnt necessarilybeacuse they meant to be horrid but because they were as naive,as foolish,as humans as the rest of us,they made mistakes in the way they brought you up orfinished a relationship with you or whatever ,not because they wanted to do it that way but because they didnt know any different,if you want to,you can let go of any feelings of resentment of regret of anger you can accept that you are that you are a fabolous human being because of all the bad things that has happened to you not inspite of them ,what is done is done and you need to just get on with things ,dont use the labels good and bad,yes i know some of it is indeed bad,but it is how we let it affect us that is real bad,you could let all these things get you down,fizzle away internally lik esome emotional acid making you ill and resentful an dtsuck ,but you will let them go,embarce them as character forming and in general as positive rather than negative