under my hat

the rules of life are not about making lots of money and being incredibly sucessful,it is quite simply about how you feel inside,how you affect people around you,what sort of a friend ,partner and parent you are.what sort of impact you make on the world,and what sort of impression you leave in your wake.if uou are about to become a rule player or you are about to embark on a life changing adventure ,possibly ,if you choose to accept your mission,keep quiet no one likes a smart arse.thats it,a rulenumber one which i must say i,m also finding as a discovering to live on myself and with a strong force .there maybe times when you do want to talk to other people about ahat you are doing because ,quite naturally ,you want to share it with somebody ,well you cant and you dont,let them find out for themselves with no clues from you.